Part 1: We often end up dreaming and worrying about the world that could be instead of living in the present and being present for people around us. In relationships, more times are spent fighting and arguing in an effort to change or make it “better”. Perhaps, it would just be better if we accepted the relationship for what it is and simply lived every moment. We waste so many precious moments by living in a fictitious world of our own, made up in our mind. And then we have to struggle to bridge the gap between that fiction and reality.
Part 2: When we are facing problems in any kind of relationships, we often try to change the other person. Can we instead look within and see what I can change in me? Instead of blaming the external forces and trying to change those, try changing myself to get the desired results.
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